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October’s Cybersecurity Awareness Month is more than a corporate reminder — it’s a call to protect our families, our homes, and ourselves online.
Cybersecurity professionals spend their careers protecting networks, systems, and organizations. But the habits they develop often spill over into their personal lives.
As a cyber professional, I have found this experience to be both rewarding and, at times, entertaining. Over the years, my insistence on tying cybersecurity to everyday life has turned my family members into what some might call “paranoid.” I prefer to think of it as cautious.
And it has made us all safer.
When my aunt thought I was a bad hacker
One of my favorite stories involves my aunt and social media. I had sent her a friend request from my own account, expecting her to accept it without hesitation. Instead, she called me in a panic.
“Are you sure this is really you?” she asked. “What if it’s a bad hacker pretending to be you to steal my information?”
At first, I laughed. But then I realized something important: she was applying lessons I had been teaching the family for years.
I had often warned them about cloned social media accounts, fake friend requests, and scams that spread through messages appearing to come from trusted contacts. My aunt had remembered those warnings and put them into practice. What could have been a quick click turned into a pause, a question, and ultimately, a safer choice.
Her hesitation was not paranoia. It was awareness. And in today’s world, that distinction matters.
How habits spread
That story is just one example of how cybersecurity habits ripple outward. In my family, we discuss suspicious emails, strange text messages, as well as safe social media practices and online shopping habits.
We double-check links before clicking and verify unexpected requests for personal information. These practices may seem small, but when they become habits, they significantly alter how people interact with the digital world.
For my family, these lessons have taken root. My spouse now thinks twice before clicking on a link, my cousins use stronger passwords, and my aunt double-checks even my own friend requests. What started with me sharing tips as a professional has grown into a culture of caution within our family.
Why everyday awareness matters
The importance of these small, everyday practices cannot be overstated.
Many successful cyberattacks exploit simple mistakes such as clicking a malicious link, reusing passwords, or ignoring software updates. The good news is that by cultivating security habits — such as pausing before clicking, questioning unexpected messages, and using multi-factor authentication — anyone can reduce their risk.
This is why cybersecurity professionals have a duty to educate not only their colleagues but also their families, friends, and the broader community. Every conversation we have, every tip we share, helps build a stronger collective defense.
When my aunt hesitated to accept my friend request, she wasn’t just protecting herself—she was demonstrating how awareness spreads. Her caution set an example for others in the family to follow.
Practical habits for everyone
If you’re wondering how to start, here are simple habits anyone can teach their loved ones.
- Pause before you click. If a link or attachment seems unexpected, verify it first.
- Be skeptical of “too good to be true” offers. Scams thrive on urgency and greed.
- Use strong, unique passwords for each account, ideally with a password manager.
- Enable multi-factor authentication (MFA). Even if a password is stolen, MFA adds a critical barrier.
- Verify requests for information. A quick phone call or direct confirmation can stop a scam in its tracks.
- Update devices regularly. Patches close vulnerabilities that attackers exploit.
These practices are simple, but when shared consistently, they become part of a person’s digital reflexes.
A ripple effect
Looking back, I realize that my family’s so-called paranoia is really just heightened awareness. They have adopted habits that make them pause, question, and verify. That change didn’t happen overnight; it came from years of conversations, examples, and gentle reminders that cybersecurity is not just “something I do at work.”
The ripple effect is real. When one person in a family or community becomes cyber-aware, they influence others. My aunt’s hesitation to accept a friend request showed that the habits I had shared were sticking. And I’ve seen other family members become more cautious online in their own ways.
Cybersecurity is often framed as a technical challenge solved with firewalls and encryption. But at its core, it is about people and habits. My family’s journey shows that when we tie cybersecurity to everyday life, the lessons stick — and they spread.
This Cybersecurity Awareness Month, I encourage every professional to remember their influence does not end at the office. By sharing simple habits with those around us, we create ripple effects that strengthen not only our families but also our communities. My aunt may laugh now about thinking I was a bad hacker, but I see that moment as a success. She was cautious, and that caution is precisely what keeps us safer in today’s digital world.
